Many people don’t want to spend a lot of money on sex toys. Sometimes you just need something to get the job done.
Fortunately, there are plenty of things you can use as a sex toy. Some are even safe to use in front of your partner. Here are some ideas to get you started:.
Dildos
Dildos are sex toys that can be used to penetrate the vagina, anus or mouth. They can be made of different materials and come in many sizes and shapes. Some dildos look like a penis, while others are more abstract or curved for g-spot stimulation. They can also be ridged, double-sided or even have suction cups. Some dildos are made of stone, while others are crafted from silicone, rubber, plastic or metal.
Pleasure-based sex educator and sex-positive advocate Lateef Taylor says it’s important to consider the body type of the person using a dildo before buying one. Some dildos are too small for some people, while others are too big and can cause discomfort or abrasions. For example, a dildo that is too large can be uncomfortable if inserted inside the mouth or nose.
For the best results, a dildo should be lubricated before using it. Lube can cut down on friction, which can enhance penetration, and can add a slippery sensation. It can also make a hand job or blowjob more enjoyable for both the giver and receiver.
Dildos can be heated or cooled, and some have a numbing effect. Some dildos are also easier to clean than others, which can be helpful if you’re worried about bacteria build-up. For example, some dildos can be boiled or put in the dishwasher.
Penetration Toys
Many sex toys are designed to be used internally, and this can create some discomfort for some users. It’s important to understand this before committing to an internal-use toy. There’s a lot of societal weirdness around using sex toys in couples, and it can be tough to talk to your partner about it.
Many of these toys are designed to provide sensation on the clitoris and prostate, which can be very sensitive areas for both men and women. For this reason, sex toy manufacturers are usually very careful about how they ship and display their products. Typically, they’re packaged in nondescript boxes or wrapped in a layer of frothy bubble wrap to ensure that customers’ privacy is protected.
Some sex toys are also available in hard plastic cases to prevent breakage during shipping. Additionally, sex toys that require a lubricant to function are often sold with syringes for easy application of the lube. It’s important to use a good lubricant with these toys, as not all lubes are created equal.
It’s also a good idea to wash your toy regularly to keep it clean. Using dirty toys can spread STDs, especially if you share them with other people. If you want to be extra safe, put a condom on your toy before you apply it. It’s also a good idea to change condoms regularly.
Vibration Toys
Whether you’re single and ready to explore or a couple looking for ways to spice things up, vibrators can provide fun, playful sensations during masturbation or sex. They’re also great for increasing pleasure during intimacy and can add a whole new dimension to foreplay. They’re not for everyone, however — so don’t feel pressured to use one if it feels weird or uncomfortable.
If you’re a beginner, Fleming recommends starting with a cheap vibe to see how you like it before investing in a more expensive one. And remember to sterilize it before each use. That process gets rid of bacteria and dry body fluids that can cause yeast infections or chafing, even if you’re only using it with one partner.
Vibration toys can also be used to stimulate and turn on other erogenous zones, like the neck, armpits, and inner thighs. And don’t forget, a dab of lube on your skin and the surface of the toy can help prevent friction and discomfort.
If you’re curious about a new vibe, try it out slowly with a gummy bear, a finger-trap, or a ring. It can be a lot of fun to get to know a vibrator, but it’s important to learn its buttons and intensities before you turn it up too high. And if you’re going to be using it in the shower or bathtub, make sure it’s water-resistant or waterproof to avoid any surprise leaks.
Massage Toys
Whether you’re looking to get frisky with your partner, or add some kinkiness to your anal pleasure, the best sex toys for masturbation aren’t necessarily the most expensive. You can find a whole bunch of fun sensation-play toys right in your own home, or at the local grocery store.
For instance, a fresh, clean vegetable can make an excellent DIY dildo—especially when you stuff it. A cucumber is great because it’s long, skinny and pliable—perfect for anal or vaginal insertion. You can also use a plastic bottle, like a water bottle or a soda can. Just be sure to use a clean, disinfected one. Bodily fluids can contain bacteria that, when reintroduced to the body, can cause irritation, yeast infections and other unpleasant symptoms.
Another simple yet effective sex toy is a toothbrush holder. Simply slip a pair of crew or knee socks inside, then tighten the socks with a rubber band and voila! A simple, inexpensive, customizable and safe DIY dildo.
If you’re looking for a little more sophistication than a sock-stuffed cucumber, check out the highly rated Le Wand. This toy has a smooth head that can pleasuringly graze clitoral and prostate areas, as well as a massager on the handle that delivers a fluttering sensation. It’s also a bit heavier than some of the other sex toys on this list, so it’s more suitable for anal use.
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