We’ve all heard the tales of couples getting stuck together after having sex in the ocean. Buoyancy and space can make sex in the pool or ocean an incredibly romantic experience, but it’s important to know the risks involved.
For one thing, water—whether it’s salt or chlorine—washes away your natural lubrication. That can lead to friction during penetration and even dryness that makes you more susceptible to infections like STIs or unwanted pregnancies.
Safety Tips
As fun as sex in the ocean can be, it’s important to remember that the same rules apply in water as on land when it comes to protecting yourself from sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy. Always use protection, and be sure to have a plan in case you need to get out of the water quickly.
If you are having penetrative sex, make sure you’re wearing a dive buddy and that your buoyancy compensators are off to avoid getting them in the way of delicate male or female tissue. And don’t swim alone — drowning is still a real risk and shouldn’t be taken lightly.
Even if you’re only having oral sex, don’t forget that the salt water in the ocean can be a harsh lubricant that may make things more difficult than they need to be. And if you are a swimmer, be sure to wear a wetsuit to protect your skin from rough waves and any sharp rocks that may be in the water.
It’s also a good idea to avoid having sex in the sea or pool if you have any open cuts on your body. These can easily become irritated by the salt or by any dirt that may be in the water. And sand is another problem—you don’t want to get sand in your vagina (that is actually a thing, called prisoner penis syndrome). It’s also not a great idea to have sex with someone who’s been swimming in the same water before you, as this could lead to infections like a urinary tract infection or a yeast infection.
Getting Started
Sex in the water isn’t just a made-for-the-screens thing—it can be real and totally epic. But before you head to the beach with your sexy partner, make sure you’ve got all of the right things ready to go. This means bringing plenty of lube and the right birth control, whether that’s condoms or hormonal contraceptives.
It’s also important to find a spot that’s secluded. You’ll want to avoid public swimming areas like community pools, hotel jacuzzis, and hot tubs because they can contain all sorts of bacteria, not the kind you want to introduce to your vagina or penis. Instead, find a secluded cove or some other nook where you can feel safe and comfortable.
Then you can practice sexy positions that are more difficult to do on dry land. Try spooning, for example. Or if you’re feeling brave, go for some underwater foreplay—non-penetrative sexual activity that makes use of the natural buoyancy of water.
If you’re planning on doing penetrative sex in the ocean, keep in mind that the water won’t kill any sperm, so you could still get pregnant. That’s why it’s important to always wear a condom when doing sex in water, even if you’re wearing a swimsuit. You should also check your condom frequently to make sure it hasn’t broken down or been compromised by chlorine, especially if you’re using it for penetration.
Choosing the Right Body of Water
Despite what you may have seen on your favorite movie, water sex is not as easy as it looks. It takes a lot of maneuvering, balance and (most importantly) determination to get it right, especially underwater.
While it might be a little easier to have sex in the ocean than, say, a swimming pool or Jacuzzi, it is still not as safe. For one, the water itself is not a good lubricant. It rinses off water-based lube or store-bought lubricant, leaving you with less lube and more friction—not exactly a recipe for sexy bliss.
Additionally, ocean water can contain bacteria that can cause UTIs or yeast infections in the vagina. It can also carry parasites, which you definitely don’t want near your genitals. And of course, sand gets in your orifices, which is not only uncomfortable, but can lead to serious infection and even STIs.
So while sex in the ocean may be tempting, it’s not necessarily a good idea unless you have a partner who is an experienced swimmer and you can do it in a private area with no distractions from other beachgoers. If you really want to have water sex, consider sticking to lakes or pools, which are much more sanitary. And, of course, always use a condom.
Getting Stuck Together
While it may be tempting to spice up sex on the beach, it’s best to stick to a pool or the shoreline instead of open water. People in open water are more likely to encounter strong underwater currents that can drown them and parasites that can cause disease. Also, they’re more likely to be on public property, which could expose them to charges of public indecency or other sexual offenses.
Another problem with sex in the water is that it washes away natural lubrication and can make penetration difficult. This can lead to irritation and yeast infections. For these reasons, it’s important to use a silicone lubricant such as Move, Uberlube, or System Jo before penetrating your partner in the ocean, lake, river, or any other body of water.
The good news is that having sex in the water can still be a lot of fun. Buoyancy and the ability to move freely in a swimming pool or other body of water make it possible for couples to explore new sexual positions that are impossible on land. Also, many sex experts agree that having sex in the water can actually be more sensual than having sex on dry land. It just takes some careful planning and caution to pull it off safely. If you’re ready to give it a go, be sure to read our tips on how to have sex in the ocean so that your adventure is enjoyable and safe.
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