Despite the misconceptions about it being dirty or dangerous, having sex while on your period is actually pretty normal. And while it can be a bit messy, laying down a towel and using positions that work with gravity, like missionary and spooning, can minimize the mess.
Plus, many people find that menstrual blood provides a great natural lubricant. So, do guys really like having sex while on their period?
1. It’s a great way to bond
Having sex while on your period may seem gross to some, but for many couples it’s actually really great. Not only does it help you bond with your partner, but it also helps relieve menstrual cramps and symptoms, and can even speed up the shedding of your uterine lining. Of course, like all sex, it’s important to use protection and practice safe practices to avoid getting an STI or HIV.
Many women find that they’re hornier than usual when they have their periods, which can make for a more intense and sensual experience. Plus, the blood acts as a natural lubricant and can make things extra slippery and smooth. And if you’re worried about stains, try having sex in the shower—the water will take care of the mess for you!
But for some, the stigma around having sex during your period makes it seem gross or uncomfortable. If you’re nervous about it, have a candid conversation with your partner and see how they feel. Then, decide what’s right for you and your partner. Remember, there’s no right or wrong answer when it comes to sex—it’s all about what feels good and comfortable. Just remember to be safe, use protection for STIs and birth control, and always practice in a consenting situation. And if you’re feeling confident enough, go for it!
2. It’s a great way to relieve stress
There are plenty of benefits to having sex while on your period, including a little extra pleasure and some good old-fashioned orgasm. Plus, some people find that having sex during their period reduces cramps, one of the most common symptoms of PMS.
But it’s not all roses, of course. One thing to keep in mind is that period sex can be messy, but if you have a good communication with your partner and use the right products (see Clue’s Period Kit for ideas), there’s no reason why it should be. Just be sure to have a towel or extra sheets on hand to cover your bed, and wash the sheets as soon as you’re finished.
And if you’re really worried about the mess, try sex in the shower — it’ll help keep the blood away from your sheets and will make for a cleaner experience. It also helps to have sex on days when your bleeding is light, like the first or second day of your period.
There are a few things to keep in mind when having sex during your period, such as the fact that it can be more difficult to penetrate, and that you may have an increased risk of getting an STI. However, as long as you use protection and communicate with your partner, there’s no reason not to have sex during your period.
3. It’s a great way to get horny
Some girls find their libidos are at their highest right around the time of ovulation. For other women, they notice heightened arousal during their periods (or just before). And while many girls avoid period sex out of fear their partners won’t be into it, a whole lot of guys say they love to have sex with women on their period.
It’s not exactly clear why some people feel so horny at this time of the month, but one theory is that it has to do with hormones. A day or two before your period, oestrogen and testosterone levels plummet to enable the shedding of your uterus’s lining and to start your menstrual flow. As your bleeding starts, however, those levels quickly begin to rise again – hello horniness.
Another possibility is that there’s a higher level of serotonin in the blood, which can boost arousal. And then there’s the fact that having a period increases blood flow to the pelvic and genital areas, which can also increase pleasure. Masturbating also helps, as it relaxes the brain and releases endorphins, dopamine, and the love hormone oxytocin. So, if you’re on your period and feel horny, just go for it! And, as always, make sure to use protection. It’s possible to contract STIs like HIV through blood, and it’s a lot easier to do so during your period.
4. It’s a great way to get pounded
Having sex during your period may seem gross or inappropriate, but it’s actually pretty awesome. According to a study from Science Direct, women with periods experience higher levels of arousal, and orgasms can reduce cramps. It’s also been found that menstrual blood acts as an extra lubricant, which can enhance sexual pleasure. Plus, if you do a position like spooning or missionary sex, the blood will drip away more easily thanks to gravity.
In addition, sex during your period can help to relieve cramps, and the endorphins that are released during orgasms can boost mood. Plus, if you use a tampon or menstrual cup, you can have mess-free period sex (which can make it easier to talk to your partner and focus on orgasms).
But if you’re not into messy sex, there are still plenty of options. Many people find that having sex in the shower is a great way to have an enjoyable experience without worrying about the mess. And if you want to minimize the mess even further, try using a dark towel and choosing positions that work with gravity, like missionary or spooning. And of course, always remember to use a condom and practice safe sex.
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